I came across this site yesterday, and I thought it was interesting and relevant.

http://www.therebelution.com/modestysurvey/

The part I liked the most was reading the text responses from the guys on the issues. Click on "Survey Results" and then on "Open Questions" to read quotes from guys on what they think is modest... or not. There are all ages here, although you can filter the survey to a specific age.

Girls: read and think... how do you dress, and how does that fit in with helping your brothers in Christ? Where is your standard when it comes to clothes?

Guys: read and think... what do you agree on? What do you not agree on? Where are your standards when it comes to dress?